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He would rather stay home and watch tv all day. Is this a man thing? No, it's not a 'man thing'. We often went out as a family at the weekend, but also quite often DH would take DD out alone while I got on with the gardening or whatever. She's grown up now but we still enjoy doing things together when we can. Not man thing per se. I know lots of dads that aren't like this. My husband is like this though He'll go along happily enough But rarely initiate. But if the kids have a big game, or a concert or something he'd be there without question. I wasn't sure from your post if it was that the kids were competing and you were asking him to go and watch them or if it was a match you wanted him to take them to see. If the former I think it's pretty sad he wouldn't want to go. If the latter I guess it's less of a big deal. Like you, I'd want him to take the kids if I thought they'd get a kick out of it but there's no point forcing him. I'd be disappointed too and have been in a similar situation but I usually tell myself that if the roles were reversed I wouldn't love him organising my time and activities for days he wasn't there!

Being professional, doing his job.

Aibu that I feel angry and upset that my ex has sleepovers knowing that my Lo's will no doubt be getting in bed during the night and or the morning. A couple weeks after I moved out And on "break" Am I supposed to be ok with this? Am I over reacting? I'm guessing that he has a woman stay overnight in his bed when he has the kids too so they are being exposed to someone who might not be around very long. Yes it is not reasonable for your child to share a bed with their dad's gf of a few weeks.

AIBU — am I being unreasonable? The acronym is attributed most to parenting website Mumsnet, where members can post and debate whether their choices, intentions and feelings are justified — or are unreasonable. The topics covered vary from friends to family to work, but notably to relationships too. You can break this down by reflecting on: how defensive your partner is being, whether this is a recurring pattern, whether this impinges on a core value of yours, and if you feel unheard. Determining where to draw the line though is tough because inevitably, our past experiences do affect the way we approach the present — particularly if there are unhealed wounds.

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Please create an account To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. Aibu to find this odd? Not too tired to go to his brother's though. I wasn't sure from your post if it was that the kids were competing and you were asking him to go and watch them or if it was a match you wanted him to take them to see. For desktop support. Food orders for work related events are to be vegan and vegetarian only I used to live like that once, it was awful. That's disgusting. If she continues I'm going to take further action. To ask what you have eaten today lighthearted PART 2 As long as you stay in the mind set that he can fix you, you'll never feel better better he can't!

Forget Mumsnet. Recognising when we are acting unreasonably in a discussion can be difficult.

Best friends birthday Sharing posts outside of Mumsnet does not disclose your username. As a kind of secondary point to this, why have so many topics and not use them? OP posts: See all. Lol honestly I'm with your son, I hate it when people say "can I ask you a question? Parenting Follow topic. I recommend reading Overcoming Low Self-Esteem by Melanie Fennell; it's about cognative behavioural therapy as self-help and it's very good. For desktop support. Aibu 9 replies. RedHelenB i completely understand that, I feel that I can be a bit too much at times too and it is unfair to expect him to make me feel better everytime and I do need to work on myself.